A passed through NIC is exclusive to that VM. The hardware ends up "inside" the VM. You cannot connect a vSwitch.But why do you need three interfaces for LAN in a virtualised context? For your VMs it's all vSwitches, anyway.
There is no such thing as a free lunch Maybe your project is a bit too ambitious.
You could try to switch from VMXNET3 to E1000 if you have not done that already.