I have Asus RT-N56UB1 running in AP mode, and I can manage it's wifi password through it's own WebGUI, but NAT, routing and Firewall things are managed by my Opnsense.AP's Don't have Firewall, DHCP and NAT which means that you can only change Wireless network name and password, if it is pure AP, depending on brand and what type of AP it is.
Reason why you should use Switch and avoid routing as much as possible on Opnsense, is because more routes and more ports are being used, is because it easilly overwhelms firewall and either causes network disconnections or slows down the speed.
Your PC might be extreme high end gaming PC, but still wouldn't be able to handle all the traffic, since CPU speed and it's features are more important, than Core and thread count of the CPU. Especially if you are running opnsense on a virtual machine.