I do not want the NUC to act as a router
I'd like to avoid double NAT if possible
If you want to use your router as dhcp server you need to leave it in „Wireless Router Mode“ according to this Synology site: https://www.synology.com/en-global/knowledgebase/SRM/help/SRM/NetworkCenter/operation_modesBut in this mode the router is using NAT. Seems to be not possible to disable it. So you would introduce double NAT to your network.The order of devices would be like you suggested in the beginning.Definitely not the most optimal solution.
With that being said then, other than by using a device running OpnSense, how else would I be able to crunch the VPN workload in such a way that its not limited by the hardware on the router and doesn't put me in double NAT?That is the question I'm asking, for all intents and purposes.