Only the first/default LAN will have rules that will allow you to access the FW and go online, the others will need rules to achieve that. In your case it could be LAN1
Also. For simplicity the interface designated as LAN during setup, say LAN1 will have a DHCP service enabled (I think it is an option given at setup) so when you plug your laptop, it gets an ip and they can talk.If for any reason that wasn't enabled, check the ip aff of your laptop. If is not in the range ie. 192.168.111.0/24 then change it manually on the laptop so they're both in the same network that way and can talk.
Just install, boot, connect a PC to the single LAN port and check if you get an address and if you can login to https://192.168.1.1.If successful you can add the other two interfaces from the UI, add DHCP and firewall rules, check if you can login to the firewall on one of them, and then change the IP address and the DHCP of the original LAN.Sounds like a plan?A newly installed OPNsense with default configuration "just works". If it doesn't, there's a more fundamental problem, so start with that "known good" configuration.
Depends on the power of the processor. An old one, say from 10 years ago, maybe. Anything from the last 5 years minutes. These are very broad statements, the real answer is based on more scientific numbers.But in short it should only take a few mins. 30 mins sounds either a dinosaur of a cpu or it has booted and you just aren't connected network-wise correctly to it yet. i.e. you are on network A and the machine only listening on B.
simplest way to verify: connect physical monitor and keyboard.