We may have a similar problem. I was hoping an admin would jump in and help out. We have it set up as documented, but trying to use a single WAN static IP. I think this is what you are doing and we have found that the script that is out there takes the WAN interface down, but then it disappears. When bringing the primary FW back up, since WAN no longer exists, it just grabs the next interface in line. So obviously things have changed. I found that even after the fail over and returning it back, nothing worked. Even reboot. What I discovered was I had to go to WAn interface save and apply, and the gateway. Nothing had changed, but doing this caused it to start working again. So something gets changed in the background that does not show in the GUI. Is it possible to get the CARP stuff updated so we can use it? My son says if I go to a FW version that supports this, I'm on my own, so need Opnsense to work.
In 80% of all scenarios where both firewalls are master on just one interface it's a missing VLAN in the switch. The 20% rest is igmp snooping on the switch which doesn't forward the multicast packets to the destination.It's one of both ...