only use OUT rules if you know what you are doing. normally IN rules work well.
But traffic towards hosts on the OPT1 network is outgoing through the OPT1 interface. In and out are always in relation to the interface in question.
OPNsense is stateful. If you have a rule on LAN:Source: LAN netSource port: *Destination: OPT1 netDestination port: HTTPS, SSH, whatever, or *Action: allowThat is all that is necessary to establish a TCP connection. The first packet from LAN to OPT1 will setup a state that will permit bi-directional flow of packets belonging to the same TCP connection but nothing else.
tcpdump on LAN, tcpdump on OPT1, tcpdump on both end devices ...BTW what do you mean by "OPT1 address"? You are supposed to initiate the connection with the IP address of the device connected to OPT1, not the address of the OPT1 interface of your OPNsense ...
Disable anti-lockout for a test ...