In the GW configuration Egress Interface "LAN" thats the L3 Interface to which you have the AP connected?
Also your AP is a routed AP not a dummy AP?
On your AP you have several Subnets/Interfaces? One for the IP of the AP 192.168.10.0/24 and one for the Pi 192.168.1.0/24?
When you connect your Pi via WiFi does it get IP from 192.168.10.0/24 or from 192.168.1.0/24?
Also I forgot to ask before, how to you identify that you loose the connectivity to the Pi?
As well you said static route keeps dropping, can you during the time, check routing tables and ARP tables on OPN and the AP?
Why is your static route disabled?
I hear you think, why not make a 192.168.1.0 VLAN? I've been experimenting with that, but for some reason I can't get that to work (yet). Also, I need an AP in the VLAN for my IoT devices. It is a test set up for a to-be remote production location .Maybe I should replace my crappy TP-Link TD-W9970 AP for a proper one that I can flash with DD-WRT, so I can make VLANS and working relayed DHCP. Any suggestions? Thanks for helping me so far