You mentioned earlier SNI that could cause problems if I remember correctly. Is that something?
DST Root CA X3
I hope I did follow you correctly and this was what I was doing wrong. (?)
may be those "site1chain.pem, site2chain.pem and site3chain.pem" did not contain the root cert?
I have those Letsencrypt certs created in synology for that specific domain/site
How can I verify this?
Well it works, or it looks like it works :-) (is there a verification method?)
can try to look in pem-file. does it contain certificate from https://letsencrypt.org/certs/trustid-x3-root.pem.txt ?
can try to change certificate on web-server
Can it be that nginx on the opnsense part overrides / makes synology cert obsolete?
I changed the cert on the synology part to a self signed cert for a domain, but no difference
if you change the certificate on synology web to a certificate with mismatched (with TLS: Servername override field)