Ad, you are right it is not 802.3. It is RFC1122 (Requirements for Internet Hosts -- Communication Layers). Specifically in section 3.3.1.1.https://tools.ietf.org/html/rfc1122#page-47My interpretation is that OPNsense's implementation of the "reply-to" feature appears to be overriding the local/remote decision as described in rfc1122 section 3.3.1.1.