Using FQDNs could be a factor. Tunnels in tunnels another. I'm not sure. It's a complex world.There is another patch we tried to triage this with, but it shouldn't change things for you, although it's harmless to try as well:https://github.com/opnsense/core/commit/dd1c2e19e548# opnsense-patch dd1c2e19e548
1 restart only the modem:1a the connections returned?1b only the connections that already were UP before the restart, returned?
2 handshake / gateways2a the handshake is performed for all the connections or only the ones UP2b status of the gateways before and after the restart.
3 connection3a do you have a DSL/cabel connection or through a 4g/5g modem?3b the modem is also a router? or it is only a modem/ configured in bridge mode?