The problem seems to the that the OPNSense gets traffic through the tunnel but doesn't send it to the ipsecN interface (and likewise, traffic from the inside network that should be routed to the other end of the IPSec tunnel doesn't enter the ipsecN interface).The tunnel is up according to the VPN > IPSec > Status Overview page and I can see traffic arriving on the enc0 interface with tcpdump. However, tcpdump on the ipsec10 interface doesn't show any traffic.
I followed the guide at https://docs.opnsense.org/manual/how-tos/ipsec-s2s-conn-route.html to set up a new-style connection instead of the "legacy" style.Any hints?
Did you set static routes for the relevant networks ?