The way commit bits work is that an existing committer (anyone with FreeBSD.org email) sends core@ an email proposing someone, and then core votes on that. I guess you could describe this at "dangling". But the weird thing is - correct me if I'm wrong, but in late 2024 Dave was already a core team member, and voting on your own candidate feels kinda sus. Also, core is not supposed to do leadership - the person who proposes you for commit bit becomes your mentor, core has nothing to do with that afterwards.
Regarding src folks committing to ports or vice versa - that's acceptable as long as you make sure you know what you're doing, eg get an "ok" from your mentor or a ports committer. But you're supposed to still follow all the ports rules, like maintainer timeouts.
Wrt community manager - I think that would be the Foundation. Not sure if it was established with that in mind, but that's large part of what they do. They are also independent from core team.
As for the (rather depressing) rest - I agree, and from our internal mailing list this seems to be a fairly common view.
Regarding src folks committing to ports or vice versa - that's acceptable as long as you make sure you know what you're doing, eg get an "ok" from your mentor or a ports committer. But you're supposed to still follow all the ports rules, like maintainer timeouts.
Wrt community manager - I think that would be the Foundation. Not sure if it was established with that in mind, but that's large part of what they do. They are also independent from core team.
As for the (rather depressing) rest - I agree, and from our internal mailing list this seems to be a fairly common view.
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