Ok I figured it out, so I leave the answer here for everyone's convenience :D
Use this logic to set this up:
1) Login to the switch, setup your VLANs: leave the 2 trunk ports UNTAGGED
2) When creating the VLANs for example OFFICE vlan, PHONE vlan add the regular (UNTAGGED ports) into the VLAN group and ONLY TAG THE TRUNK PORT
3) Once this is all good the best thing is you take your TRUNK cable coming out of the OpenSENSE box and plug it into a laptop running Wireshark so you see what's the port spitting out
So on the Opensense box use reverse logic:
4) Find the trunk port you want eg EM7 (make sure this port is not a member of any BRIDGE groups, if so remove it)
5) Go to Interfaces > Other types > VLAN
6) Add all the VLANs one by one using your trunk EM7 as parent (make sure you use the exact same VLAN numbers as on the switch)
7) At this point none of these dummy VLAN interfaces are active go back to Interfaces > Assignments and readd them one by one
8) Once this is done they will show up in the LEFT menu among the other interfaces, no need to assign any IP for them just Enable them and save it (initially they will get some name like OPT12 OPT13 use this time to rename them to user friendly names)
9) Go into the Firewall > Rules and one by one go through all of these new interfaces and add 2 rules (PASS all IN and PASS all out), save and apply the firewall
10) And as the last step go back to Interfaces > Other types > BRIDGE and now add the corresponding new VLAN interfaces you created into the BRIDGE you like, the bridge is like a port group on a regular switch, eg if BRIDGE0 is the first 4 port and that is the WORK VLAN add the new WORK VLAN interface into the bridge
That is true that you will NOT be able to add two VLANs into the same bridge interface. In my case this is more then enough, hope it will help somebody some day.
Use this logic to set this up:
1) Login to the switch, setup your VLANs: leave the 2 trunk ports UNTAGGED
2) When creating the VLANs for example OFFICE vlan, PHONE vlan add the regular (UNTAGGED ports) into the VLAN group and ONLY TAG THE TRUNK PORT
3) Once this is all good the best thing is you take your TRUNK cable coming out of the OpenSENSE box and plug it into a laptop running Wireshark so you see what's the port spitting out
So on the Opensense box use reverse logic:
4) Find the trunk port you want eg EM7 (make sure this port is not a member of any BRIDGE groups, if so remove it)
5) Go to Interfaces > Other types > VLAN
6) Add all the VLANs one by one using your trunk EM7 as parent (make sure you use the exact same VLAN numbers as on the switch)
7) At this point none of these dummy VLAN interfaces are active go back to Interfaces > Assignments and readd them one by one
8) Once this is done they will show up in the LEFT menu among the other interfaces, no need to assign any IP for them just Enable them and save it (initially they will get some name like OPT12 OPT13 use this time to rename them to user friendly names)
9) Go into the Firewall > Rules and one by one go through all of these new interfaces and add 2 rules (PASS all IN and PASS all out), save and apply the firewall
10) And as the last step go back to Interfaces > Other types > BRIDGE and now add the corresponding new VLAN interfaces you created into the BRIDGE you like, the bridge is like a port group on a regular switch, eg if BRIDGE0 is the first 4 port and that is the WORK VLAN add the new WORK VLAN interface into the bridge
That is true that you will NOT be able to add two VLANs into the same bridge interface. In my case this is more then enough, hope it will help somebody some day.