After updating to 18.1.13 I am now experiencing the same issue with memory usage growing until Suricata crashes, then going back to normal. This only seems to occur if the abuse.ch\urlhaus rule set is enabled. Disabling it again seems to have stopped the issue for now.
How much RAM do you have?
So you get an error in the logs? If not perhaps the ruleset is too big for you system?
Can you watch the memory Bar in the Dashboard shortly after enabling Suricata?