Sounds like more upstream bugs. Is this all on DoT? It's still rather buggy after all these years.
fetch https://pkg.opnsense.org/FreeBSD:13:amd64/snapshots/latest/All/unbound-1.18.0.pkg && pkg install unbound-1.18.0.pkg
root@OPNsense:~ # netstat -QConfiguration:Setting Current LimitThread count 4 4Default queue limit 256 10240Dispatch policy direct n/aThreads bound to CPUs enabled n/aProtocols:Name Proto QLimit Policy Dispatch Flagsip 1 1000 cpu hybrid C--igmp 2 256 source default ---rtsock 3 256 source default ---arp 4 256 source default ---ether 5 256 cpu direct C--ip6 6 1000 cpu hybrid C--ip_direct 9 256 cpu hybrid C--ip6_direct 10 256 cpu hybrid C--Workstreams:WSID CPU Name Len WMark Disp'd HDisp'd QDrops Queued Handled 0 0 ip 0 200 0 77796 0 380237 458033 0 0 igmp 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 rtsock 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 arp 0 0 3802 0 0 0 3802 0 0 ether 0 0 1568827 0 0 0 1568827 0 0 ip6 0 15 0 0 0 255964 255964 0 0 ip_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 ip6_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 1 1 ip 0 117 0 190911 0 192458 383369 1 1 igmp 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 1 1 rtsock 0 6 0 0 0 3396 3396 1 1 arp 0 0 1 0 0 0 1 1 1 ether 0 0 441355 0 0 0 441355 1 1 ip6 0 29 0 0 0 319858 319858 1 1 ip_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 1 1 ip6_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 2 2 ip 0 129 0 68245 0 1618864 1687109 2 2 igmp 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 2 2 rtsock 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 2 2 arp 0 0 41070 0 0 0 41070 2 2 ether 0 0 802177 0 0 0 802177 2 2 ip6 0 63 0 95122 0 297665 392787 2 2 ip_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 2 2 ip6_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 3 3 ip 0 183 0 134480 0 361672 496152 3 3 igmp 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 3 3 rtsock 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 3 3 arp 0 0 6 0 0 0 6 3 3 ether 0 0 720936 0 0 0 720936 3 3 ip6 0 264 0 81594 0 551511 633105 3 3 ip_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 3 3 ip6_direct 0 0 0 0 0 0 0root@OPNsense:~ # unbound-control -c /var/unbound/unbound.conf statusversion: 1.18.0verbosity: 1threads: 4modules: 3 [ python validator iterator ]uptime: 64425 secondsoptions: control(ssl)unbound (pid 2627) is running...
# unbound-control -c /var/unbound/unbound.conf statusversion: 1.18.0verbosity: 1threads: 8modules: 3 [ python validator iterator ]uptime: 460 secondsoptions: reuseport control(ssl)unbound (pid 76726) is running...