I have a few questions first:1. Why would you need 2 firewall/routers? OPNsense alone should be enough. It is usually not recommended for simple home networks to use two of these.2. Do you want to setup OPNsense for its VPN features alone?3. Please define "disrupted VPN connection"4. How could OPNsense cut the internet connection (or any connection) of your LAN clients, when your clients are controlled by another firewall?
This is not how things work. It's either that i can't comprehend what you would like to achieve, or you still have a lot to learn about these stuff, so you could understand how all these services work together, so you could then design your network. I'm not mocking you or something, i'm sorry if it sounds like that. I very much understand and know that nobody is born with IT knowledge or something, so please don't feel bad. Or, the other possibility, i don't understand your goal, or another one, i simply never heard of such a design.Why don't you try to setup an OpenVPN server on one of your LAN clients without OPNsense? You could have a working VPN connection at least, but killing the other LAN client's internet connection in certain cases would still be very difficult to achieve.The way you would like to do this (again, if i understood correctly), in short, is just not possible (i'm fairly certain), with anything :-)