Issue is resolved. I set it up exactly as it was before where I had a layer 2 bridge on one subnet, only I disabled all hardware acceleration on the Vultr VPS instance of OPNsense. Speedtest works just dandy, though it got better speed in SoftEther (100mbit vs ~50) ;)
So +1 for the request to build SoftEther into OPNsense as a replacement for OpenVPN?
So +1 for the request to build SoftEther into OPNsense as a replacement for OpenVPN?