Update: I changed the NIC from a AOC-STGN-i2S 10 GBe with a Intel 82599 chip and 2x RJ45 SFPs to a Intel i350-T4. Long story short: my MSS clamping issue is gone. I don't need any manual mss entry in the wan interface. Automatic mode works for me with this nic. So I guess it is maybe a driver/kernel issue with some nics?