QuoteDo you have all of the offloading in the NICs turned off?I disabled the three hardware offload settings.
I don't see anything obviously wrongly with the OpnSense configs. I have even tried to install pfSense on the same hardware to benchmark, and the result was the same. So I guess it's a mostly likely a hardware thing or a general FreeBSD limit. Unfortunately I don't have another box to test with. Will probably leave it like this for now.