It was the 6.8.12-13-pve. Yes i've found the issue on the pve forum
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Internet:
Destination Gateway Flags Netif Expire
default xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx UGS igc0
127.0.0.1 link#5 UH lo0
....
192.168.50.0/24 link#3 U vtnet0
192.168.50.1 link#5 UHS lo0
....
# ifconfig vtnet0
vtnet0: flags=1088843<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,SIMPLEX,MULTICAST,STATICARP,LOWER_UP> metric 0 mtu 1500
description: LAN50 (opt1)
options=80028<VLAN_MTU,JUMBO_MTU,LINKSTATE>
ether [REDACTED]
inet 192.168.50.1 netmask 0xffffff00 broadcast 192.168.50.255
media: Ethernet autoselect (10Gbase-T <full-duplex>)
status: active
nd6 options=29<PERFORMNUD,IFDISABLED,AUTO_LINKLOCAL>
auto vmbr50
iface vmbr50 inet static
address 192.168.50.210/24
bridge-ports none
bridge-stp off
bridge-fd 0
# opnsense > ping -c 2 192.168.50.189
PING 192.168.50.189 (192.168.50.189): 56 data bytes
ping: sendto: Invalid argument
ping: sendto: Invalid argument
--- 192.168.50.189 ping statistics ---
2 packets transmitted, 0 packets received, 100.0% packet loss
# opnsense > ping -c 2 192.168.50.100
PING 192.168.50.100 (192.168.50.100): 56 data bytes
64 bytes from 192.168.50.100: icmp_seq=0 ttl=64 time=0.141 ms
64 bytes from 192.168.50.100: icmp_seq=1 ttl=64 time=0.149 ms
--- 192.168.50.100 ping statistics ---
2 packets transmitted, 2 packets received, 0.0% packet loss
round-trip min/avg/max/stddev = 0.141/0.145/0.149/0.004 ms
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Try to set "State Type" in the Advanced Features of the firewall rule that allows the traffic to "Sloppy State" and TCP flags to "Any flags.