Hmm, that's all so very strange. It's a long shot but maybe it's hardware related? pfSense still uses FreeBSD 12.2, OPNsense is already on 13. I use an 82571EB based Intel PRO/1000PF fiber card for the WAN link, maybe there's something funky going on with the drivers. I'll i dig out a media converter and try again with the onbard i350 ports (Supermicro A1SRM-2558F).