pkg install intel-em-kmod
if_em_updated_load="YES"
Did you check the alert log?
Maybe you have a rule that blocks your traffic.
RDP sometimes connect, sometime doesn't, during connection initiation I see loops of "Initiating remote connection" <-> "Configuring remote connection".
Veeam backups never reaches peak performance, transfer in between the server being backed up and data storage is almost all the time at a bare minimum, with a short spike of up to 10% of the transfer speed without IPS.