tcp4 0 0 10.116.44.195.3128 *.* LISTEN
I'm having this same problem on a fresh install of 20.7. I'm trying to implement echo_123's solution, but the destination port setting is greyed out so that I can't change it. I tried setting up a firewall rule with every other setting as suggested, and that didn't help. It works fine without any additional setup on pfSense, so this seems to be a bug in OPNsense.