14 hours laters and at least 3 years older ... I have a perfectly working HA router finally.
I started to rollback all my changes (done in last let's say 7 days) this morning. And I discovered my environment is simply incompatible with "IP Alias" bound to CARP VIP.
As soon as I reconfigured all WAN IP Aliases (19 in total) back to separate WAN CARP VIPs (each with its own VHID group, subnet equal to /26, unicast, no xmlrpc sync at the end) everything started to work flawlessly. I can reboot nodes, initiate Maintenance modes as I wish, everything behaves nice and smooth.
I started to rollback all my changes (done in last let's say 7 days) this morning. And I discovered my environment is simply incompatible with "IP Alias" bound to CARP VIP.
As soon as I reconfigured all WAN IP Aliases (19 in total) back to separate WAN CARP VIPs (each with its own VHID group, subnet equal to /26, unicast, no xmlrpc sync at the end) everything started to work flawlessly. I can reboot nodes, initiate Maintenance modes as I wish, everything behaves nice and smooth.